Home

Home is a place, where our heart is. It is a place, where we can be ourselves, where we feel comfortable and loved just as we are. Home is a safe haven in the ever changing world. The one place, that ever remains the same. Or so we think.

Life is made of changes. Every little thing in this life is in constant change. Weather changes, seasons come and go. Even our bodies change all the time. Cells reproduce and old ones die. And we change our minds almost as often as our clothes, believing today this and tomorrow something else completely. There is no stopping the change, it is life itself.

Everything and anything can change in an instant. First we have it and the next moment we don’t. Life doesn’t ask for our permission for change to happen. Our children grow up and move away. Friends move and scatter across the world. Pets get old and die. Even our furniture gets old and grubby.

However our true home is not in any physical place. Instead we are souls having a physical experience, souls with a body. We came eagerly to this ever changing life. Not to have one place, that would never change, but knowing, that change was inevitable and we embraced it. We knew it would give us clarity on what we personally preferred. We came for the fun of it.

Our time here on Earth is limited. None of us know, when will be our last day. So if you woke up this morning, make the whole wide world feel like home and enjoy this very day, that you right now have, to its fullest!

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Manic Manifesting

When we first hear about the Law of Attraction, I think we are all enticed by the prospect of getting and having whatever we should want to. “Cool! Now I’m finally gonna win that Lottery!”

I see a lot of people stay hooked on manifesting. They obsessively keep trying to manifest all sorts of things. However Law of Attraction doesn’t respond to our words, or actions. Law of Attraction only responds to our vibration, to whatever we emit from ourselves. And we are only able to vibrate or emit, what we believe is possible in this life.

By trying to manically manifest things into our lives, we will do ourselves more harm than good. So just stop and ask yourself, why on Earth do I want, whatever it is, that I want. Am I trying to impress others, show them how far I have gone, or do I perhaps just want the feeling of security, freedom, or joyfulness? In the end it is always the feeling we are after, not the stuff itself. That is extra.

First of all our beliefs limit profoundly, how we are able to vibrate. We cannot be or have anything, we think is impossible for us, or in general. Our beliefs are a big stumbling block, and we don’t even notice them at times. EFT or Tapping is an easy way to show us our limiting beliefs and gently remove them. (see my post on 22nd June, 2016 on EFT in http://www.merjasuomela.wordpress.com/2016/06 (second one when scrolling down))

Secondly everything in this Universe is two things: the wanted and the lack of it. It is possible, that we focus on the things we want the wrong way around. If we are more focused on the lack, Law of Attraction will match us up with more lack. To find out which side we are more focused on, we have to pay close attention to how we feel, when we think, visualize and talk about the things we want. Lack makes us always feel bad, or constricted, as allowing on the other hand makes us feel good, eager, happy, or joyful even.

Thirdly we can limit Law of Attraction all by ourselves. By thinking and visualizing, that the only way, we can have for example extra money, is the lottery, we are in fact limiting our options of getting it. We are shutting countless doors, by which our extra money could come to us.

In the end, if we feel that particular feeling we are after, does it really matter, how it came? If it came that specific way we ourselves wanted it to come, or some other possible way?

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Negative Feelings

Life consists of ordinary days: some of which are good and some of which are not. There will be things, that will make us happy and over the moon. Then there will be others we could simply do without. We don’t get to choose, which ones we are going to have, we only get to choose, how to react to them. There is ebb and flow in life and also in our days.

We are not always at our best. We are also allowed to be vulnerable, powerless, at loss, or even sad and unhappy at times. There is no shame in that. That is called full human life. There is no shame even in crying, when we feel like it. Because how would we know, when we are happy, if we never were unhappy.

Bottling up these bad feelings and pretending to be happy, when we are not, makes our whole body suffer the consequences. Our bodies never lie to us. They show us exactly, how we feel minute to minute. These bottled up feelings tend to cause resistance, that shows itself as tension and stress in our bodies, and in the end even as aches and pains and disease.

It is much more proactive to admit to ourselves, what our true feelings are. Then try to find a way to release them: cry, if you feel like it, shout in the shower, beat your pillow, or go for a walk or a run. Nature has many healing qualities, so a walk/run in the forest can solve and calm many of our feelings.

When things happen, that are not to your liking, remember, that you are not a bad person, if you have negative feelings about them. Just admit your feelings, find a proactive way to release them, and move on.

There is plenty of good in everything and in every day. So if you can’t find the silver lining in what you are living at the moment, concentrate on the good things, that you can find, that are in your life. Enjoy, whatever you can.

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New World

Every day we wake up, we get to have an awesome present: a brand new day, that none of us has ever lived before. We are unspeakably lucky to have this. Every new day is a new beginning for us, a chance to start again.

We are so prone to see all the negativity in this world, in every situation, and in every single day, that we don’t recognize the immensity of what we truly have in a new day. This poor habit is blinding us for this precious gift, that we get to have every single morning, when we wake up.

Every new day, that we wake up to, invites us to make the most of that particular day. Every new morning offers us the opportunity to let go of the yesterday, leave it behind, and begin again. Every day we get to choose, how we want that day to go, and what we want to do. We have the choice.

I am ever so grateful for each and every day I get to wake up to, for every new sunrise and sunset. The world is brand new every single morning, so full of possibilities and potential. I am immensely blessed with each new day, that I get to have and live. I humbly accept every morning as a gift, and every morning before getting up I bless the day by making a list of things I am grateful for. Every morning it makes the day seem even more precious.

To make the most of your life see every day for what it is: an invaluable gift for a new beginning. No matter what has happened yesterday, or wherever you are, you get to start again today, right now. Therefore bless your every morning with gratitude and watch you life change for the better.

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